Congratulations on your upcoming wedding! As you dive into the whirlwind of wedding planning, it's easy to feel overwhelmed with all the details that need attention. But fret not, because I've got your back with the ultimate wedding checklist to ensure nothing falls through the cracks before your big day. Let's dive right in! 

First things first, let's lock in that dream date and venue for your special day: 

Choose the Date - Sit down with your partner and pick a date that works for both of you. Consider important factors like season, availability of guests, and any significant dates you want to avoid. 

Book the Venue - Once you've settled on a date, it's time to find the perfect venue. Whether you're dreaming of a rustic barn wedding, a dazzling same sex wedding venue, or a chic urban affair, make sure to book your venue well in advance to secure your desired date. 

Confirm Catering and Entertainment - Don't forget to arrange for catering and entertainment for your reception. Research vendors, schedule tastings, and book your caterer and entertainment to ensure your guests have a memorable experience. 

Now that the big decisions are out of the way, let's take care of some essential legalities and logistics: 

Obtain Marriage License - Head to your local courthouse to obtain your marriage license. Make sure to check the requirements and deadlines in your area to avoid any last-minute stress. 

Create Guest List - Sit down with your partner and compile your guest list. Be mindful of your budget and venue capacity when finalizing your list. 

Send Save-the-Dates - Once you've finalized your guest list, it's time to send out those save-the-date cards. Give your guests plenty of notice to make travel arrangements and mark their calendars. 

Order Invitations - Choose and order your wedding invitations, including RSVP cards and any additional inserts. Don't forget to include important details like dress code, accommodations, and registry information. 

Let's talk about the fun part – dressing up for your big day! 

Choose Wedding Attire - Start shopping for your wedding attire, including your dress, accessories, and groom's attire. Don't forget to schedule fittings and alterations to ensure a perfect fit. 

Book Hair and Makeup Artists - Research and book hair and makeup artists for yourself and your bridal party. Schedule a trial run to test out different looks and finalize your wedding day look. 

Arrange for Transportation - Arrange transportation for you and your bridal party to and from the ceremony and reception venues. Whether it's a classic car or a stylish limousine, make sure you arrive in style on your special day. 

Now let's add some flair to your wedding with beautiful décor and personal touches: 

Plan Décor and Florals - Work with your florist and decorator to bring your vision to life. Choose floral arrangements, centerpieces, and other décor elements that complement your theme and color scheme. 

Create Seating Plan - Once you have a final guest count, create a seating plan for your reception. Consider seating arrangements that encourage mingling and ensure everyone feels comfortable. 

Order Wedding Favors - Show your appreciation to your guests with thoughtful wedding favors. Whether it's personalized trinkets or sweet treats, choose favors that reflect your personality and style. 

With the big day fast approaching, it's time to wrap up those final touches and details: 

Confirm Vendor Details - Reach out to all your vendors to confirm final details and timelines for the day. Make sure everyone is on the same page to avoid any last-minute surprises. 

Pack for the Wedding Night - Prepare a separate bag with essentials for your wedding night and honeymoon. Don't forget important items like your ID, toiletries, and change of clothes. 

Practice Vows and Speeches - Take some time to practice your vows and speeches to ensure they come from the heart. Whether you're reciting traditional vows or writing your own, rehearse until you feel confident and comfortable. 

Finally, the moment you've been waiting for – your wedding day is here!